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Finding a nanny for a child with specific needs
A child with specific needs deserves extra care when choosing a nanny. Here is how to describe the situation concretely and what to check without assuming anything.
Describe needs in concrete terms
Concrete situations are more useful than labels. Explain what a typical day looks like, what reassures your child, what is difficult and how you usually handle the hard moments. Your child is a person, not a diagnosis.
Check real experience
Ask precisely what kinds of children the nanny has already cared for and in what conditions. Ask her to describe a difficult situation and how she reacted. Do not infer a skill from a career path or a badge: only lived experience counts.
Explicitly check what matters
Ask open questions about independence, sleep, food, relationships with other children and managing emotions. Also note what happens if the child falls ill or if you must leave in an emergency. A clear agreement protects everyone.
Why identity proves no skill
A “verified identity” status only means an identity check was performed. It says nothing about skills and in no way implies that specialized training exists. No skill should be assumed: it is verified through precise questions and repeated exchanges.
Frequently asked questions
How do I describe my child’s needs?
Through concrete situations: a typical day, what reassures them, what is difficult and your usual habits.
Does the “verified identity” status prove a skill?
No. It only means an identity check was done. It proves no skill and no specialized training.
How do I know the nanny has relevant experience?
Ask her to describe concrete situations she lived and how she reacted.
Should I mention a diagnosis in the listing?
Describe the daily life and practical needs instead, staying respectful of your child.
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